Dude I cared nothing about aka personal bubble invader

“Seems her and her older sister were talking and wanted to introduce her older sister’s son to us since he speaks English well. At least according to them. He’s like late 20s early 30s and just finishing college…Probably grad school who knows. Oh and she threw in Tuesday a Christian. I don’t care.
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Like what? A meeting? Almost like a blind date thing. Ugh…Why did I agree to this? Wasting my Saturday doing something I don’t care about doing at all. It’s just free lunch to me. I’ve had lunch with all my previous co-teachers but this one, so whatever. This is it. She better leave me alone after this. It’s basically a favor for her. I swear…it better be short and simple and they all leave me alone. Good freaking grief. I’m honestly dreading it. I don’t care what this guy does, age, nothing…I don’t wanna be tied to her family.”

Remember when I said all that a little over a month ago? I was totally dreading it and didn’t care one bit about any info on this guy.

How many times did I say “I don’t care” in that alone?

The more she told me stuff the more I was like why are you giving me all these details about him? Why are you and your sister even talking about us in the same convo? What do you want from me???

So many questions…

Then of course things turned out pretty well for the lunch. Even though he invaded my personal bubble constantly to the point it was barely personal. My Saturday was far from wasted.

Anything happened since?

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Nope. Nothing.

Hahahaha jk jk

I’ve been chatting with the nephew recently aka dude I cared to know nothing about. I know I know….some of you are probably laughing.

I’ll let that go.

I waited forever to even contact him because first of all I tend not to contact people first. It’s basically a fear of mine. I always feel like I’m bothering the person especially when I don’t know them well. Freaks me out a lot to be honest.

Horror movies do nothing to me I tend to find them more like dark comedy. Yet, tell me to contact someone first and I panic like I’m going to get killed.

It’s like he could have said what he did that day just to seem nice and totally blow us (Keri and I) off in the end. People do that all the time. Ok I haven’t had that happen. But never know. Plus, how do you strike up a convo with a person you barely know and saw like a month ago?

Anyways, something told me to just try. Never know what might happen and he seems like he would be a good friend. Kinda need that especially a guy. After taking forever, I finally sent a simple message and I knew he was probably still at work. So I was hoping I wouldn’t get anything right off.

But my thoughts were like…”watch he’s not even gonna respond.” Only to hear my phone go off a little while later and it’s him.

Yep my face was all O.o.

Then of course I’m thinking the worse. Like he can still so totally blow me off in some way.

Did he?

Nope.

More O.o wahh?

I know, why do I keep thinking the worse? I go in with little to no expectations lately. No need to get my hopes up for anything only for them to crash and burn. Go in expecting nothing. If things turn out well then it’s like oh…that was very nice and unexpected. If it turns out crappy I won’t be all bummed about it.

Anyways, found out he’s going to Japan soon for awhile. Lucky~

Seriously…one of my goals in life has been to go to Japan. Hopefully this year. Ooo maybe for Chuseok. Hmm.

Anywho, back to the topic…I was like “ah~ well enjoy.”

Yes, I basically gave up. Why? I don’t know~! I don’t actually make a ton of friends out here. Kinda losing all hope and accepting the semi-lonely life.

But he was all “Well I’m coming back and will be free after *inserts date* Why don’t you make a list of places you want to go and I’ll see what I can do.”

What? Wait…Come again? Did I just read that right? Where did this come from?

Note: his texting skills are not the best which I find hilarious and cute. I just corrected his mistakes so it can be readable for this post.

I’m all like “really?” Have to make sure.

Like dude what? Seriously? No way.

And he’s all like “lol yeah. We’ll see what we can do when I get back.”

Let me just say I was all O.o for a few minutes.

So now I have to make a list of places.

No lie I’ll be shocked if he follows through with this. Let’s see how this goes.

Until next time~!