my guy drama

I have to laugh at the title of this already.

Anyways, I guess you can say I’m in the dating game. Maybe. Barely. It’s tiresome. Bleh.

Anywho…

Guy #1

I was talking to him and he’s barely a year younger than me. Still in school. That’s not bad. His English is decent. Yes, a Korean guy. Lives in Incheon, that’s at least 2.5 hours away from me.

No job but always has an “appointment” during the weekend. Red flags are starting to go up by this point.

He was ok. Some deep conversations, but something was a bit off about him. I swear every time I get a feeling it turns out to be right. Every single time. *Sigh*

He has a weird self-esteem issue about a few things. That threw me off at the beginning. So more red flags.

Of course like always when things are suppose to start off as friends they go into the territory that’s off limits for them. Starting with the all time famous question. “Do you have a boyfriend?” Followed up by “Do you want one?”

>.> Like dude seriously? Already? I don’t know you enough to know if I’d like to call you an acquaintance, let alone a friend of a boyfriend. 

Anyways, he started calling. Anyone that knows me really well knows I DO NOT like phone calls. I don’t know when it started, I use to like talking to my friends on the phone then some time in high school I grew to dislike it passionately. There are very few people I will pick up the phone for. Very few.

But I gave it a chance. He has a really nice voice, but he had this…cocky attitude. He was like “I’m confident around girls I like.” Yeah, sure I see how well that has worked for you so far.

Then talking about if we meet is it ok if he kisses me. No it’s not. Then he went into the other topic and ugh…

I’m like uh…alrighty. Definitely not gonna last too long. 

He lasted almost exactly a month. One day he was fine and all “send me a message.” When I did I got “why did you call me?”

I call no one especially in this country. So I definitely didn’t call him.

I was all “What? I can’t message? You told me to.”

Him: No you can’t

Me: alright, don’t worry about me bothering you anymore

Him: ok

Like what the heck was that? Haven’t heard from him since then. Granted it’s been 3 days but I don’t plan on hearing from him. That was total crap. 

It’s funny because I was just telling Keri I don’t think he’s going to last too much longer that same day and ta-da~.

So, one down and don’t care. One less person to worry about.

Guy #2

He’s a year older. Works in construction so he tends to be busy. English is…here and there. He tries. Slightly taller. Lives in Seoul.

Of course he asked the boyfriend question. But he did it in a better fashion than guy #1. So far he’s still around, messaging here and there. He might fade away, who knows.

Guy #3

Another Korean guy, who’s actually 6′. Yay~ Lives in Seoul. Anyways so far he’s nice. It’s in those questions stages. So of course it’s the boyfriend one with him too. His English isn’t that great, but once again he’s trying. Hard, so we’ll see. He might fade away too. But who knows he might stick around.

Guy #4

Yep Korean. This one lives out here in Yangpyeong apparently. Yep another military guy. Go figure. My luck. BUT he does aviation engineering. O.O Anyways, he’s born in ‘89. His English is pretty good, some grammar problems here and there but it’s cute. I know…I used cute, but that’s the only word that comes to my mind about it. He’s trying his best. I don’t know his height yet. I shall find out~

He hasn’t asked the question yet. I’m waiting on it. So far he’s decent and trying not to cross over into dangerous territories. Which I highly approve of. He’s doing this the right way so far. Hopefully he keeps it up, because he seems like he can be a great friend. He actually wants to do a language exchange. Finally. Good grief. We shall see how it all goes. ^.^

When did my life become this complicated? Ok, I signed up on a “pen pal” site, I like helping people with English. But this is what happens. It’s interesting though.

Also, I know the boyfriend question is going to come up with guys in general. I don’t blame them. Have to make sure the girl doesn’t have someone that would try to fight because you are talking to her. Besides the fact that they might have interests themselves. Life~

Until next time~!